When Women Pray…

Today we had a baby shower for an amazing young couple whom we all love so much! This couple has been investing in our own kids at our local church for a couple of years, and so it is such a blessing for us to be part of their experience as they welcome a precious baby girl into their home!

One of the habits that we have is that we spend time praying for the mom, dad, baby, etc… It is so sweet to hear the different ladies’ thoughts as they intercede for the family. I particularly love taking note of the unique ways in which the Lord leads the thoughts and burdens of each lady. What a beautiful thing when we share our heart with the Lord and each other in such a way!

So, on the way home, I was sharing this thought with my daughter. I was telling her that I was so proud of our young ladies and how mature and thoughtful their prayers were. She was expressing to me in return how it is hard, because she doesn’t know how to say exactly what she is thinking, and she feels like she stumbles around and doesn’t do a good job. She never expected that I would tell her that I completely understand and that I struggle with the same thing! As a matter of fact, I have heard so many people say the same thing. So, I shared with her for awhile about how the Lord just loves to hear us express our thoughts to Him; about scriptures that would tell us that the Lord doesn’t care about fancy, perfectly put-together prayers; and then about some practical things that you learn about praying out loud… specifically, she said that she know that she says, um, too much, but doesn’t like it. I was telling her about ‘filler’ words, and how, eventually, you just learn to pause while you are thinking.

She looked at me in disbelief, and said, “Really! That is what they are doing when they pause? I just thought they were all crying!”

LOL – I am still cracking up. Because, yeah, that’s what happens when women pray!

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  • Robin
    January 8, 2012 at 3:45 am

    Hi Lynn, I saw your comment on my blog… nice to hear from you! I do not have a front-loader, just a regular old top-loading machine. The recipe I use is: 2 c. borax, 2 c. washing soda, 1 bar grated ivory, 1 bar grated fels-naptha soap. I mix it all together in a food processor and use about 1-2 Tbls per load. Hope that helps!

  • Jessie
    January 9, 2012 at 12:29 am

    LOL it is true we usually cry a lot especially when we are at a baby shower.


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Scott & Lynn DeGroff

We are believers in the Lord Jesus Christ that have been married 22 years. Our joy and our ambition is to walk with the Lord and serve Him with our lives. Our son Daniel is married to the love of his life, Della. Our daughter Rebekah is a student at Liberty University. Our heart's desire is to see a generation reached for Christ and a bride of Christ that loves Him with all her heart.

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